Did They Cheat? Tarot Reading
Each transcript line with what the chalkboard is doing on it. Time is video time (after the 3.5s title). The voice is the creator's own.
0:03“No office for you. We have The Tower in reverse.”
🃏 on screen: The Tower · shattered
✍️ chalk: underline The Tower "reversed"; connector The Tower—The Chariot; bracket [The Tower, The Chariot, Nine of Wands, Nine of Cups] "building"
0:07“So our opening car and the chariots.”
0:15“Can't reverse.”
✍️ chalk: label "opening car" on The Chariot
0:18“It's not that.”
✍️ chalk: "?" on The Chariot "can't reverse?"
0:21“I'm kind of”
✍️ chalk: note "not that"
0:24“Nine of wands.”
🃏 on screen: The Tower · shatteredNine of Wands · power · strong
✍️ chalk: circle Nine of Wands "kind of fine"; "!" on Nine of Wands "clarity needed"; connector Nine of Wands—Nine of Cups
0:26“I need one more clarity here.”
0:30“Nine of cups in reverse.”
🃏 on screen: The Tower · shatteredNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverse
✍️ chalk: underline Nine of Cups "reversed"; label "Praxifari" on Nine of Cups
0:37“So we did have one on Praxifari.”
0:40“Bear with me.”
✍️ chalk: note "bear with me"
0:41“It's the new decks.”
0:42“We're building like a building.”
0:56“There's something uncomfortable here.”
0:58“There's a truth that should have come out”
1:00“that's been suppressed, okay?”
1:05“because you know, like the regular towers,”
1:06“like the truth crashing through”
1:07“and must've like blowing everything up,”
1:09“but this is like somebody actively holding the walls up”
1:11“on something that should have already fallen.”
1:14“And so that's keeping the revelation”
1:15“from landing the way it needed to.”
1:17“In the previous reading,”
1:18“I think that if they're either related or similar to energy”
1:21“or like both are you, you know,”
1:22“it could just be that's why you're in that”
1:25“stalled out conflict a little bit,”
1:27“trying to figure out this information, right? That's why you're on the channel, right? That's”
1:32“kind of what we do here. Something very false was being protected from getting out. And so,”
1:45“yeah, the disruption that the honesty would have caused has been avoided, because this”
1:54“this The Chariot reverse too, it's a clarifier basically.”
🃏 on screen: The Tower · shatteredNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meant
✍️ chalk: label "the chariot reverse" on The Chariot; label "clarifier" on The Chariot; "!" on The Chariot "wheels off"
2:01“This is the wheels coming off.”
2:05“I shouldn't laugh at this because this is like”
2:06“probably sad here, but I'm just getting a picture of like,”
2:10“this was somebody who was able to,”
2:12“normally able to hold himself together,”
2:13“or maybe that was both of you or them.”
✍️ chalk: note "stalled out conflict"; note "figuring out info"; note "false protected"; note "disruption avoided"; note "held together"; note "both of you"
2:17“And then it's like they lost control of the narrative,”
2:20“to another way of saying,”
2:22“and or lost control of herself in the situation.”
2:25“And that's part of the issue.”
2:28“There's no discipline here to stay the course.”
2:31“But there's momentum, some women's The Chariot, right?”
✍️ chalk: label "lost control" on The Chariot; underline The Chariot "no discipline"; circle The Chariot "momentum"; "?" on The Chariot "did it happen?"; "!" on The Chariot "hidden from you"
2:34“But it put her somewhere she wouldn't,”
2:37“or her or him or, you know, I'm getting a picture,”
2:40“but you know, if they weren't thinking straight.”
2:44“So if you were wondering, did something happen?”
2:45“Did you're suspicious?”
2:48“Seek more confirmation, but this is clearly saying”
2:50“that yeah, it did and it was hidden from you.”
2:53“Maybe you're gas lit, that happens a lot too, right?”
✍️ chalk: note "not thinking straight"; note "gas lit"
2:58“Oh, well, yeah, so that's the two nines here, right?”
3:01“Look, another confirmation here,”
3:04“because that's not 10, you know,”
3:08“they just sell low energy.”
3:13“They've still got their walls up, but they're exhausted.”
3:17“And maybe she was exhausted.”
3:19“I'm just gonna say she,”
3:19“you could take it as a fence,”
3:21“right around here, guys,”
3:22“I'm just gonna go with the office direction.”
3:23“So she was already running on empty,”
3:25“relationship was. We'll go with her. She's carrying these wounds. Her defenses are up”
3:31“as a reflex. And that's like she's giving like, you know, that's like, maybe she grew”
3:39“up, could be a situation or something like that, or like emotional, or just I guess with”
3:43“the problem. And so that's how you survive. You know, you've got your balls up, you don't”
3:47“admit defeat. You don't give somebody a load of gun to shoot you with, you know, the truth.”
3:53“You know, they were never rewarded with the truth, right?”
3:57“They were rewarded for tricking or deceiving the parent.”
4:01“Because one of those parents of like,”
4:03“they were like, ah, good job, you know,”
4:05“I'm disappointed that you told the truth.”
4:08“And that, and instead it's like, they told the truth”
4:12“and then that's when they got their assent to them every time.”
4:15“And it was, and there are some parents that are just like,”
4:19“you know, you ask them for advice and they're just like,”
4:22“just lie, you know, because that's morality is different for everybody.”
4:27“So that's why we talk about dating with them and, and, and, um, looking for,”
4:33“you know, these kinds of red flags, this, the kind of stuff that happens.”
4:36“Um, so what's the worst of this personality will also accuse you of doing”
4:41“stuff because shame is our number one enemy.”
4:45“I'm getting caught up.”
4:45“I'm seeing a whole picture here.”
4:47“Um, but this is a gut punch.”
4:49“So 9 of cups reverse here is like, they were empty inside and looking for something to fill”
✍️ chalk: label "empty inside" on Nine of Cups; underline Nine of Cups "gut punch"; circle Nine of Cups "looking to fill"; "!" on Nine of Cups "walls up"; arrow Nine of Cups → Nine of Cups "clarifier"; bracket [Nine of Cups] "red flags"; connector Nine of Cups—Nine of Cups; label "exhausted" on Nine of Cups; "?" on Nine of Cups "accuse you?"
5:02“I'm going to want to because they are exhausted.”
5:05“They got their walls up, but instead of being whole within themselves reversed, it's like,”
5:14“you know, they're looking for somebody or something to fill it.”
✍️ chalk: note "shame enemy"
5:20“That's your 9 of cups reverse.”
✍️ chalk: underline Nine of Cups "reverse"; label "not your fault" on Nine of Cups; "?" on Nine of Cups "praying on them?"; circle Nine of Cups "validation wound"; underline Nine of Cups "morality"; "!" on Nine of Cups "performative"
5:21“And again, it's not that you don't take this person because it's not like they were”
5:28“were unsatisfied as a result of it being your fault.”
5:32“There's so many different reasons.”
5:34“And this could be someone praying on them emotionally.”
5:36“This could be a validation wound that every new person they”
5:40“meet, if that person's withholding validation,”
5:42“then they're going to then.”
5:44“Or 1,000 different things.”
5:48“And again, if they don't have the morality,”
5:51“if there was something about your relationship that”
5:53“required them to be performative, I guess,”
5:55“is one thing, you know, to make them be,”
✍️ chalk: note "many reasons"; note "withholding validation"; note "1,000 things"
5:57“if they were forced to be the person.”
6:01“It's giving like, this is the kind of person that”
6:07“isn't great with long-term relationships,”
6:09“but they win people over at the beginning”
6:12“by being whoever that person wants to be,”
6:15“but they don't know how to show up authentically”
6:16“in a relationship and find mutual compromises”
6:20“and that allow them to themselves”
6:22“to be who they really are.”
6:25“So they're always kind of changing who that is”
6:28“based on a lot of person.”
6:30“Because that's what they've learned”
6:31“that they have to do to get love.”
6:33“And then with all these vulnerabilities,”
6:36“because they never really get a true connection”
6:37“based on the being loved who they are,”
6:39“when they meet somebody new,”
6:41“they take on the character or sick of that person.”
6:46“Or what would they think that person wants.”
6:48“And sometimes that's just the physical thing.”
6:50“It could not even mean that she wanted to have it.”
6:53“that she necessarily ordered them.”
6:59“that with that movie,”
7:01“Eternal Sometimes about his mind,”
7:02“when he accuses Clementine of cheating on him”
7:06“by somebody that she just met,”
7:07“because he's like, well, that's what you do, right?”
7:10“That's how you get people to like you, right?”
7:12“It's just like, dang, like he's just brutal.”
7:16“But, you know, again, that may not be the situation,”
7:19“that's just the picture I'm getting”
7:20“at him for somebody here.”
7:21“Um, uh, cause they, they feel hollow and vulnerable to whatever it shows up.”
7:26“Just feel like, yeah, even temporarily.”
7:29“So let's get some more clarification on this.”
7:31“We have eight of wands reversed.”
🃏 on screen: The Tower · shatteredNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: label "eight of wands reversed" on Eight of Wands; "!" on Eight of Wands "wild"
7:34“So I'm going to reverse this.”
7:36“I'm going to flip the deck.”
7:40“Three of tentacles.”
7:44“It's just, we ain't ever long.”
✍️ chalk: label "three of tentacles" on Three of Pentacles; note "brutal"; note "hollow and vulnerable"; note "temporarily"; note "get clarification"; note "flip the deck"; note "ain't ever long"
7:48“So staying somewhere you don't want to.”
7:55“Cause I mean, this is a charismatic, they're becoming, putting on the,”
7:59“the energy of a charismatic person.”
8:02“You have the four of wands.”
🃏 on screen: Four of Wands · celebration · homeNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: underline Four of Wands "staying where you don't want"; label "pinnacle" on Four of Wands
8:07“So all wands, it's like those pinnacle here.”
8:11“You don't get these cards, this isn't any bag for me.”
8:17“But I'm kind of getting here.”
8:19“You know how people like telling themselves”
8:22“and sometimes it's like, it's not what they say.”
8:28“Sometimes it's what they don't say”
8:29“or what they say instead of what they don't say.”
8:31“Like if it, when confronted,”
8:33“I'm saying if I want to first, it's kind of like,”
✍️ chalk: note "not what they say"; note "what they don't say"
8:39“instead of saying you're crazy,”
8:42“if you feel like acting like you know,”
8:46“maybe even bluffing or something,”
8:47“or like you're just, whatever it is,”
8:49“and they're just like, you can't prove it.”
8:51“That's not something that a innocent person says.”
8:55“That's somebody who is,”
9:00“their way of dealing with people who are calling them out,”
9:03“which again, these are personalities.”
9:05“Again, they have lots of masks.”
9:08“They don't seem like they're a personality”
9:09“until they're confronted.”
9:11“And then when they're confronted,”
9:12“that's when their reality,”
9:15“that's when they had the most dangerous”
9:17“because their reality is like,”
9:22“their biggest fear.”
9:25“It's like when they,”
9:26“it's the energy of being trapped in a corner”
9:28“as a feral animal or something.”
9:30“That's how they become when they're confronted”
9:33“that they're being exposed,”
9:35“or someone seeing beyond their mask, right?”
9:37“It's irrational, it doesn't make sense”
9:40“that they would be just freaked out or something like that.”
9:42“But that's a little bit here.”
9:45“I mean, I was speaking, I both like,”
9:48“something like that, like they say things”
9:52“that tell you all you need to know”
9:55“because just an innocent person would have been like,”
9:58“what are you talking about, you know, or whatever.”
10:01“But to jump to like, can't prove it or whatever.”
10:07“I mean, and that's just an example,”
10:08“but you'll know if you can see something like that.”
10:11“Cause this is like saying to like look to mixed,”
10:13“you know, mixed signals, communication doesn't land”
10:17“And then with that being three pinnacles here too,”
10:19“is that like other people know”
10:22“that she's lying about this.”
10:26“And all of that means they were involved.”
10:29“Maybe people know that you wouldn't even think no,”
10:31“but you kind of know the thing that makes sense.”
10:36“Other people were involved in it too,”
10:38“like covering for her or helping gaslight you,”
10:43“participating and keeping you in the dark.”
10:48“Mutual friends and or family.”
10:55“Just the slowdown in information”
10:57“and the feeling of you doubting your reality was deliberate.”
11:01“And by all involves, I would say.”
11:05“Again, let the evidence report a point where it does.”
11:09“It's not, I'm not saying to grasp its flaws”
11:11“or affirm its most illusion.”
11:13“This is more about saying, you know what you know,”
11:17“but gas sliders are real.”
11:20“And a lot of times they travel in packs.”
11:22“So it's very interesting here.”
11:27“Cause yeah, cause the queen of wands”
🃏 on screen: Queen of Wands · causeNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
11:34“be this like confident person and she doesn't need the validation. You know, she has a confidence”
11:42“so much that it's magnetizing. And so yeah, maybe she felt like this like was going to”
11:59“experience would help her cross into that energy or she's just a confident liar a little bit too.”
12:06“Like she's, she's so confident in her truths that it makes it seem real. Like she believes”
12:15“so hard that you believe it. But then she's saying little stuff that like undermines it completely.”
12:19“It's something funny. But again, it's life or Death for them and ego, ego Death, right?”
🃏 on screen: Death · endings · changeNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: label "ego Death" on Death; underline Death "wounded inner child"; circle Death "radical absurd theatrics"; arrow Death → The Tower "telling you"
12:25“Because the narcissism is all about protecting this very wounded inner child with radical absurd”
12:32“theatrics. And so that's why their masks are so powerfully cultivated. And they're always telling”
12:43“you what they think you need to know. Truth is relative to you. They've got different truths”
12:48“from different people. So sometimes the moments you look back on and you're just like cherishing”
12:57“and suitably. And again, you can, this is a he for some of you, but to show nothing that way,”
13:05“that's just like exactly what you needed and you feel like you can beat it, you can build on it,”
✍️ chalk: label "confident liar" on King of Wands; underline King of Wands "magnetizing"; circle King of Wands "cross into energy"; "!" on King of Wands "believes so hard"; arrow King of Wands → Death "undermines"; note "life or Death"; "?" on The Tower "masks cultivated?"; note "truth relative"; bracket [King of Wands, Death, The Tower] "different truths"; connector The Tower—King of Wands
13:09“and it's like, wow, it helps you to forget the bad moments and to take blame for them”
13:16“as they want to help you do, but this for a long just like, yeah, part of this too was like,”
13:26“like this is a vampiric energy.”
13:30“And so by taking from you”
13:35“and channeling it into a new future or new situations,”
13:39“that is, you know, they manifest it”
13:43“off of other people's energy”
13:45“and they draw confidence off of people”
13:47“by how they put other people down.”
13:49“You know, you hear about the people”
13:50“that have a short infroid or whatever,”
13:52“they like to see people get hurt,”
13:54“like to see pain, you know,”
13:56“And these are people who feel nourished by that.”
13:58“And there's, you know, there's forums online”
14:02“about people who confess this and describe it perfectly”
14:04“and some well-documented psychology.”
14:08“And some people are just bad, you know,”
14:10“and some are black.”
14:12“So yeah, let's build on this though.”
14:19“So I'm just getting so much like filling in the gaps here.”
14:21“I'm not fooling cards.”
14:24“Seven of swords or seven swords.”
🃏 on screen: Seven of Swords · hangmanNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: underline Seven of Swords "confess"; label "deception" on Seven of Swords; "!" on Seven of Swords "bad"; circle Seven of Swords "filling gaps"; arrow Seven of Swords → The Hanged Man "not fooling"; label "seven swords" on Seven of Swords; "?" on Seven of Swords "one seven?"; connector Seven of Swords—The Hanged Man; bracket [Seven of Swords, The Hanged Man] "telling story"; arrow Seven of Swords → Six of Swords "build six"
14:26“This is, we have one seven swords.”
14:33“It's very interesting.”
14:34“Hangman, seven of swords, hangman.”
14:38“You know, cards, this is telling a story.”
14:41“I'm gonna build a six of sword though.”
🃏 on screen: Six of Swords · transition · moving onNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: note "forums online"; note "build on this"; note "very interesting"; label "hangman" on The Hanged Man
14:43“You know, you're leaving on the waters, three of swords.”
🃏 on screen: Three of Swords · heartbreak · sorrowNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: label "leaving on waters" on Three of Swords; underline Three of Swords "a lot of swords"; "?" on Three of Swords "What happened?"; connector Three of Swords—The Hanged Man
14:49“So, a lot of swords here.”
14:58“Yeah, what I'm kind of seeing is like,”
15:03“Like the most important piece of information”
15:07“is the one that's actually missing here.”
15:10“Again, kind of going back to that initial item.”
15:14“And with the hangman there too, like, I mean, this is,”
15:18“it's giving betrayal energy big time, but it's also like,”
15:24“she's got a completely different perspective on what she did.”
15:28“You know, she flipped the script in her own mind”
15:29“and that could be she's believing.”
15:32“Now it's more like, I'm leaving her on her own life,”
✍️ chalk: note "missing piece"; label "the hangman" on The Hanged Man; circle The Hanged Man "betrayal energy"; note "different perspective"; underline The Hanged Man "flipped the script"; arrow The Hanged Man → Three of Swords "believing"; note "leaving her on own"
15:34“just more like what she did makes perfect sense.”
15:38“The rationalization is, she told the story,”
15:42“tell herself a story where betrayal is necessary”
15:46“and even justified.”
15:48“But the deck doesn't believe her, right?”
15:54“But it's literally rationalization.”
15:59“And she's already moved on.”
16:04“them to actively putting distance between herself and this.”
16:08“And the three of swords, let's keep it real because it is, I”
✍️ chalk: label "grief cost" on Three of Swords; underline Three of Swords "rationalization"; "?" on Three of Swords "believed?"; arrow Three of Swords → Three of Swords "distance"; circle Three of Swords "herpes"; "!" on Three of Swords "good thing"
16:21“mean, yeah, herpes is coming at the cost of your grief. But”
16:26“again, this is not called a cultic grief, you know, I mean, in”
16:29“this instance, it could be down, grieve it more non or grieve”
16:32“it, mourn it, let it go, move forward. Yeah, you're probably,”
16:38“it's probably a good thing to be a thing of this person. You”
✍️ chalk: note "moved on"; note "mourn let go"
16:40“I don't know all the details.”
16:48“She might feel some on the pain herself,”
16:49“but I feel like she's bearing it.”
16:52“This is a person who's not honest with themselves.”
16:54“Is on touch with their emotions”
16:56“and kind of just exists in survival mode.”
17:00“And it could be an impulsivity”
17:03“that they're just used to living and dying by”
17:06“and then letting the chips fall as they may.”
17:08“What's interesting is that the deception and the departure are kind of the same moment.”
17:21“So it's also like, this might be hard to believe, but it's giving, creating enough of a cover”
17:28“to leave clip cleanly here too.”
17:30“It's not just like hiding what happened, but it's like hiding what needed to be hidden”
17:36“so that the exit would go smoother.”
17:38“I don't know how smooth it was, but it's just giving that little bit more security.”
17:43“if you knew the full picture, so much worse.”
17:46“And also that's maybe where her piece is kind of coming from”
17:49“is because she feels like, yeah, she was caught, but”
17:55“she was not confronted with the reality of all she did.”
17:59“And there was enough there for her to make it seem”
18:01“like it's her fault, or at least tell you to move on”
18:13“Like they pack your bags,”
18:15“Or they pack their bags and then within it still have the nerve to”
18:21“act surprised when I don't have time for them to go.”
18:24“But like the leave, Oh, and I had to stop before the leaving or the”
18:32“end of the relationship was always the point, but they made it seem like”
18:37“if they intraneted it, right.”
18:39“They made it seem like it was your idea so that they could find it,”
18:48“blame the victim, maintain the upper hand, and save face. Because that's the kind of person that”
18:58“would be on the same page as everything. This person is orchestrated. This is a control”
19:08“controller. It could be like the narcissist. This is someone, if you haven't seen evidence,”
19:14“it's in this. It's maybe not a person or take on what resonates. But if you've been wondering,”
19:20“and there's been a history of evidence that you're not sure what to deal with, or”
19:23“or if you've been living in gas letters for years or something,”
19:29“this is somebody who orchestrates situations”
19:31“and then plays dumb.”
19:33“Real good at playing dumb and real good at managing”
19:40“And that's what's a supernatural feeling about some”
19:45“of these characters is that they know your triggers”
19:49“And they know how you respond to said triggers.”
19:53“And so that's when their amounts are manipulated”
19:56“because this kind of tantrum at this point,”
19:59“hitting this note and doing these things”
20:00“will get you to do this, this, and this.”
20:03“And then you find yourself in the chess game”
20:08“when you make certain moves that forces people”
20:11“to make counter moves or make bad decisions.”
20:14“Yeah, yeah, I think it's a good thing to do a lot.”
20:22“These kind of readings.”
20:23“Yeah, let's see, because then we got the hangman coming through your swords.”
20:38“This is kind of like, because I'm trying to break your heart.”
20:41“This is like breaking your heart and believing that they had to do it or that they, that”
20:47“Again if your pain is their piece or something or it's like, okay, you know, Taylor Swift's”
20:53“on the TTVD album, um, how's that line about like, you know, did”
20:58“somebody hire you or whatever?”
20:59“Did you keep a gun under the bed or did someone pay you to ruin my, yeah.”
21:06“Um, what was supposed to be like my grade summer?”
21:08“I'm paraphrasing whatever, but this is feel like purposeful.”
21:11“Um, yeah, she's comfortable.”
21:28“Cause I want to understand the screen of Wands here.”
21:29“Cause that's, you know, clean up Wands in reverse.”
21:31“I could see, but, and I guess if I hadn't flipped the deck like it would have been,”
21:35“but it's going to once for a while.”
21:48“Again, the advantage of being the manipulator is that you've already processed everything”
21:52“and can move forward, leaving another person to try to figure out what the hell happened.”
21:58“Sometimes you just have to be like, what bad people do bad things.”
22:05“This is, I mean, the deck keeps saying the same thing different ways, basically,”
22:09“which is kind of cool. It's like a confirmation. Don't be surprised if somebody rebuilds”
22:16“the situation in a way that lets them sleep at night and then calls you delusional. Right?”
22:25“And because they had, they know they've fed you enough to get you to fill in the blanks”
22:31“and take the blame or accuse you. You know, because I don't always believe in demons,”
22:44“but like sometimes when it's like someone is really good at playing dumb or there's like a”
22:49“a little helper that is able to orchestrate things. Sometimes it feels that way. You know,”
22:55“let me deal with these personalities and you feel like you're making decisions.”
23:07“Let's get one final card here to put a bow on this energy and move forward because I do think”
23:11“that's the ultimate goal here. So let this go and just let, you know, that people be bad people.”
23:17“We have the Knight of Wands, right? Just move forward. You will love again. Okay. There will be”
🃏 on screen: Knight of Wands · wholeNine of Wands · power · strongNine of Cups · reverseThe Chariot · forward · meantEight of Wands · forward
✍️ chalk: label "move forward" on Knight of Wands; underline Knight of Wands "just move forward"; note "bad people do bad things"; "!" on Knight of Wands "you will love again"; circle Knight of Wands "confirmation"; arrow Knight of Wands → Knight of Wands "put a bow"; "?" on Knight of Wands "delusional?"; connector Knight of Wands—Knight of Wands; note "playing dumb"; label "the manipulator" on Knight of Wands; bracket [Knight of Wands] "the strategy"; underline Knight of Wands "let this go"
23:22“romance with you. Look, take all these lessons and let them don't project this and see ghosts”
23:27“everywhere, right? But think about the last time you talked to somebody who had real empathy,”
23:32“that if you tell a story about your bad day and they react like, oh, that's got to be so hard,”
23:39“or like real things, you know, and willing to sit with you and hold that space for you,”
23:44“versus they just changed the subject”
23:48“of what they wanna talk about, right?”
23:51“That's a huge red flag, I feel like.”
23:54“And somebody who constantly needs validation”
23:59“and has a reason why they need it,”
24:01“but then never has the bandwidth to validate you, right?”
24:06“And I know it's easy to be a guy”
24:07“and to be like, oh, I need validation, blah, blah, blah,”
24:09“that kind of thing.”
24:10“And again, it can be a term”
24:11“to be a guy who needs validation”
24:12“on the early stages of the relationship.”
24:15“I'm not saying to go overboard”
24:17“and need validation from the person,”
24:18“because that can be a lot of women don't like that.”
24:23“But when the relationship starts to be a solid connection,”
24:28“and this person is wanting to give space for you”
24:31“more than you're demanding it or asking for it,”
24:35“and they're really gonna know how your day was,”
24:37“and you start to like, they're asking questions”
24:39“to give more than surface answers.”
24:43“That's a real good red flag, I mean, green flag.”
24:49“Yeah, we can dig into more of that kind of stuff here”
24:51“in future readings.”
24:52“If you like that, please do comment,”
24:54“but at least like and subscribe”
24:55“and we'll see you in the next one.”